This morning I listened to the second press briefing by the former Fox News host and current U.S. Secretary of Defense, Pete Hegseth. It was like listening to a giddy teenager describing his latest round of Call of Duty 2. It was cavalier, unserious—and horrifying.
In truth, I could only manage about five minutes before changing the station in disgust.
He said things like:
“They are toast and they know it.”
“We will fly all day and all night… death and destruction from the sky all day long.”
“We are punching them while they’re down.”
Then he compared the war to a football game.
Who talks like this? Someone who thinks it’s a game. Someone not fully tethered to the reality of the forces he is unleashing.
I found myself thinking: this is not strategy. It’s glorification. A celebration of death and destruction. The only other leaders I have heard speak in this register are the clerics and officials of the Islamic Republic of Iran, and the leaders of Hamas and Hezbollah—men who inhabit a world of religious martyrdom and apocalyptic rhetoric. They at least clothe it in solemnity. This was something else: swagger.
And then I thought of the reported 168 girls killed at a school in the initial bombing of the city of Minab on Saturday.
It’s often said that war develops a momentum of its own. Once the killing begins, perspective narrows. One coffin is a tragedy; hundreds become a statistic. The language shifts. It becomes a numbers game. That is why Sun Tzu wrote in The Art of War, “To win without fighting is best.”
Instead, what we are seeing—and hearing—is a kind of techno-fascination with the spectacle of war, engineered for television. A belief that dazzling imagery and muscular rhetoric can pacify the public. Hypnotize us. Desensitize us.
As officials grasp for justifications—leaning on the old lie about imminent threats—they obscure the human toll. The terrible price that led the world, after World War II, to attempt something better: a system of rules meant to govern conflict and mitigate its consequences—mass migration, refugees, starvation, disease—the suffering of the defenseless and the vulnerable.
How easily we forget. How easily the world we worked so hard to build and maintain can begin to disintegrate before our very eyes.
Institutions that took generations to construct—laws forged from the ashes of catastrophe, alliances born of hard lessons, norms written in the memory of mass graves—prove far more fragile than we ever wanted to believe.
The tragedy is not only in the lives lost. It is in the erosion of the guardrails that were meant to prevent those losses in the first place.
How easily we forget—and how costly that forgetting becomes.