Monday, July 6, 2026

The Sweet Science

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Married thirty-three years.

Thirty three years of talking,

rehashing the same old conversation

in different words and tones.

Starts with

I want…

and ends with I feel…


In between there are pauses,

like pugilists to their corners.


We’ve been talking less and less lately,

my wife and I. 

As if it’s taken thirty-three years

for the conversation to wind down,

realizing that all the back and forth

was really shadowboxing,

learning The Sweet Science.


And when you’re evenly matched

and gone the distance, as we have,

bruised, swollen, sweaty and exhausted

from gut-punches, 

upper-cuts,

right hooks, 

left hooks,

there comes a point when 

you fall into each other’s arms:


Then time reverses,

you stand there, surrounded by well-wishers,

wrists held by a bow-tied man centre ring

under lighted canopy,

await the ceremonial chime of a bell

and fateful words: 


We have a decision.


Hugs of congratulations,

and consolation.

You've done your best,

given everything you have,

held nothing back.

3 comments:

Ken Stollon said...

Marriage as a boxing match ... terrific metaphor! And you milk it for all it's got ... with the variety of punches, and the bow-tied referee holding up the hands of both of the fighters. Marriage is indeed a battle where you give it "everything you have" and "hold nothing back". I also kept thinking that perhaps "talking" is a euphemism for sex ... which, if you read the poem that way, also works quite well!

B. Glen Rotchin said...
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B. Glen Rotchin said...

I gotta admit I wasn't thinking of a euphemism for talking, but I can see it (it was probably there subconsciously of course). Front of mind was actually talking, or the lack of it. And it was also probably influenced by two other things. Watching The Harder They Fall this past weekend, which was Humphrey Bogart's last film and well worth watching if you haven't seen it. One of his better performances in my view. A swan song of sorts. And also, strangely, the media frenzy over the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce matrimonial spectacle. Who rents out Madison Square Garden to get married? Who has so many family and friends? And why does anyone care? Wait until they realize that this it was only the weigh-in for a 15-round championship bout. Round one is coming up, when the two combattants start feel each other out, judging movement, rhythm and distance... then the fun really starts.